Christians, help me understand...?

Well, I do say I am against people who get intimate before marriage,because the Lord is against it both. The problem with gay people is that they always want to change things to have their way and it always hurt somebody else. LIke the movement now, they are hurting kids by adopting them and raising them up in that kind of environment. That is wrong, so their life styles is hurting others. They also flaunt their relationship in your face. People who live together or what ever, do not flaunt their relationship at all. Talking about it and flaunting it is very different you know.